The Importance of Sexual Response

 The Importance of Sexual Response


I just want to first share that my information obtained with-in this blog is a lot of second hand and a lot of opinion. I am not experienced in the depth of a sexual relationship. I personally have never felt the things that will be discussed. These are the experiences of outside sources. As we go through this discussion we must remember, our goal is to great only the greatest of relationships. This blog is simply to help us all develop love in our relationships. Our goal is to prevent contention. 

Sexual response is so important when it comes to the relationship of two people who love each other. This is where we lose ourselves in our love for another. Our sexual response outlines the things that allow for us to feel arousal and in means allow for us to reach our climax. This is a very sacred part of relationships. Sadly the world has somewhat strayed from that belief and shows the idea that anyone is free to just get with. 

Now how are we relating this to people who are in a deep relationship. The mindset of the world is not how sexual activity should be. The things that you find on the internet or in movies in not accurate. Trying to follow these ideas or manners will lead to relationships being heavy on the selfish side. Lets take this into an example. If there are two people who "love" each other right. These two are quite sexually active. When pleasure is a part of their day the woman does not seem to feel the love that the man claims. When breaking down each of these situations. The man seems to have a great desire for his lover until he reaches his climax sexually. After that he is done. How is this going to make the woman feel. She was not able to reach her climax. This is an often occurrence and one that is selfish.  Now this man probably feels great and full of love for his woman. When looking from the woman's perspective we do not feel the same love. In her eyes the man that she loved just showed a great desire for her body. Once beginning their activities some love is felt but the moment seems to only be for him. He gets his pleasure and can no longer participate. Now the woman is stuck with this partial pleasure, but more so she is having mixed emotions. Why did she not get to finish? If he loves me why do I not get to reach the point that he reaches. 

The differences of time that men and woman reach their climax is not a flaw in the plan. This is a great opportunity to build a relationship of love with each other. In the moment of pleasure it is required that the man show to his wife love for more then just her body. When you put her first and allow for her to get to her climax she will feel your love. Our bodies release endorphins and feelings that are very deep during these activities. With only one individual in a relationship reaching these the love will not be balanced. 

Many relationships in this world are all about the sex. Straight up that is often how it is. That or the sex seems to hold the relationship together. This is not how it is supposed to be. It is only supposed to be a piece of our love. The great powers that can create other life is amazing. It is a time for love to be felt. It is a time for us to connect with our significant other. Without the respect, without each individual being selfless, the good that can come from the physical pleasures is lost. At that point the only thing being built is resentment. 

I hope that you will be selfless in all manors including physical. Your relationships will be greater. 


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