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the BIG fear

 the BIG fear We have spent so much time discussing relationships. We have dived into the helpful things that allow for our relationship to survive. Sadly we can not always succeed in this. Despite working extremely hard to save a relationship sometimes it does not work. This is probably one of the biggest fears that we face in getting into a relationship. Divorce is something that a lot of people have no desire ever experiencing. In fact I am one of those people. Despite this fear of divorce it should never be the reason that people do not further their relationship. Divorce should not be the reason that you do not get married. Divorce should not be the reason that people do not look for fun. Even if it is something that they have already faced. I assume you have an idea of what our topic is today. It is divorce and why it is something that should not restrain us in life. Divorce is a fairly common thing. Far from as much as people think however. The percent of divorces that actua...
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What is Needed?

 What is Needed? Today's discussion is on contact! That is physical contact. Now when first thinking about this you are probably like well two people they love each other, they are physically intimate. That is actually not always the case. In fact all people take physical affection different and interpret it in so many ways.  I want to use a little example to help expand your mind before we get into this. I think back to high school and what a first kiss often meant. For the guy it was what was cool. He would go back and tell his buddies and then he was accepted by them. For the girl it often means that there are true feelings there. The boy loves me the girl thinks. We have different perspectives through the same experience. Side note this is not my experience haha.   We have been all about communication throughout this blog. In every way is it helpful. Well we are not stopping with that today. We need to make sure that our physical touch is given and communicated. ...
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Families and Finances

 The Family and Its Finances We live in a great period of time, its true. We have so many resources available to us. Things that have never been available until now. We however, all know the catch. These wonderful resources will cost you. Money has become what this world truly revolves around. Whenever you need something in life, you must have the money to be able to get that thing. Often our purchases are larger then what we can afford. This has created loans, payment plans, and other methods that allow for things to be paid off over time. This being a huge blessing and giving us the opportunity to purchase things that would take much longer to save up for. This being a blessing can also be a burden.  There are countless times when somebody got in their finances over their heads. This meaning that they financially get in trouble. Very often because of these payment methods not being immediate, people put too much on their plate, this putting them in a position that they canno...
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Don't hate arguing

Don't Hate Arguing  Alright so today's topic is one that is interesting. You could probably tell by the tittle. This is actually going to go into a field that I struggle with. The logic is relevant and works I just struggle to apply it sometimes. Or I forget. I am not perfect either.  I want to discuss today deeper in the idea of solving conflict. We are going to dive into ways that we can address the topic of an argument without feeding the fire. We never want to disregard someone's feeling and so we cannot in this moment of disagreement just end the argument. There are however ways to address it and end it where we have both sides of the party feeling happy and right.  This should be the aim for all couples. If you have the desire to make your significant other upset or sad maybe you should hit the road. There are five ways that we can engage peacefully in arguments. We will say do not hate the arguments, embrace them. That is really what we will be discussing completel...
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Families Under Stress

  Families Under Stress 03/04/2022  Have you ever experienced stress? Well if you have ever lived a day in your life then it is safe to say that you have felt some sort of stress. My next question is did you enjoy how your stress felt? I feel that you probably thought to yourself "well obviously not".  Stress is one of those things in life that we can never escape and that we will never enjoy. At least not anyone that I know will ever enjoy this.  Now as you all know we focus hear on the family unit and how we can strengthen that, so let us get into that. We all know a family that has gone through a divorce. We all know someone who has gone through a relationship separation. This is something that happens a lot in our world, it will always continue to happen. A great cause for these breakups and these separations is the difficulty in handling the stress associated with their lives and relationships.  We however hear do not seek to put forth the negative. Our goa...
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The Importance of Sexual Response

 The Importance of Sexual Response I just want to first share that my information obtained with-in this blog is a lot of second hand and a lot of opinion. I am not experienced in the depth of a sexual relationship. I personally have never felt the things that will be discussed. These are the experiences of outside sources. As we go through this discussion we must remember, our goal is to great only the greatest of relationships. This blog is simply to help us all develop love in our relationships. Our goal is to prevent contention.  Sexual response is so important when it comes to the relationship of two people who love each other. This is where we lose ourselves in our love for another. Our sexual response outlines the things that allow for us to feel arousal and in means allow for us to reach our climax. This is a very sacred part of relationships. Sadly the world has somewhat strayed from that belief and shows the idea that anyone is free to just get with.  Now how are...
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Why? wHy? and whY?

 Welcome once again to a blog by someone who is uneducated and has only but opinion on his side.  Today is a special day! Today I have you in mind. I want to focus on things that other people may have not even had cross their mind when coming into a relationship.  We have mentioned the before parts when looking into a relation ship. We also have discussed the position of people who are further down the line in their relationship. Today we will pinpoint a different area. We are going to be discussing specifically the great deal of change that an individual will undergo when being in the first month of a relationship as well as the first year. To narrow it down we will be specifically going into details of relationships that are with those who live together.  First off, you must realize that going into the depths of a relationship, marriage, is a great deal of commitment and it is not an easy process. Marriage is taxing. Marriage is exhausting. Marriage will make you b...
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